if you have the blessing of finding your beloved look her softly in the eyes, touch him tenderly, see into the heart of this special being who wants the same things as you do. To be to be understood, loved, and respected, to find purpose and to find themselves. You have a primary partner, a shelter from the storm, a companion, helpmate, lover and friend . You also have a sparing partner who will help you learn more about conflict, tolerance, compassion and forgiveness. By honoring your commitments, loving each other well, and staying firmly planted in current reality, you open yourselves to a transcendent love that is between you and all around you. «  I will do my very best to keep my heart open to you thriough anger, doubt and fear ».